So this week I a friend of mine, @Shamiso Madzivire wrote a lovely portrait of a lovely couple. Its challenging and inspiring; a bright light of hope in a world where marriage is a chore and a happy marriage is looked upon as a myth. And I just had to feature this post...
And what exactly makes a perfect Valentine's day gift? Is it the price tag written on it that says you are special? And therefore a $300 bouquet of flowers is better than a $30 one? Is it the uniqueness of the gift? Meaning that getting her a tailor made dress is better than the one at Edgars or Woolworths?
But yet, the irony in all of this is to have an amazing marriage, a key cornerstone will be to be good as friends to each other; not just friends but best friends. In the friendzone, this friendship is there; the willingness to accept and love each other unconditionally and the missing part is supposedly "sexual chemistry." Ironically, these besties often do not want to lose their intimate place even when the other finds a good relationship but yet do not want to go out with each other because they are "friends."
believed in the beauty of what a relationship could be (I still do) and I held on to a conception of blissful companionship in the arms of a woman who would be to my heart. The thought of how it would feel to hold in my arms someone with whom I could completely be me---and have my "us against the world love story" would at the same time be an equivocating giver of strength and sorrow....
So I found myself lingering My mind fixated on a vision alluring My heart with a bursting passion burning? And the glorious result of it all from my heart refusing to go What if instead of sports in our hearts, it were the women in our lives? That when someone trash-talked them; to their defense... Continue Reading →
HiSo today I want to talk about something that is real to a lot of us at some point in our lives if we are going to be honest and real. Something to be honest I rarely hear addressed and that subtly eats away in our hearts at our ability to take God at His... Continue Reading →
I may sound a bit rough today and in the rest of this series its possible that I may offend with some strong language but I believe love is not all mushy feelings and there are times when what is spoken out of sincere love must hurt for as it is written, "No discipline is... Continue Reading →
So I will admit final year had my number; with the hectic nature of last minute project deadlines and assignments meaning I literally had no time to be here and sharing what I believe to be a good word that will bear good fruit in your life. My apologies.So today I thought I would wrap... Continue Reading →
Hi.So I am going to address a quirky topic often unanswered in church and I will be sharing knowledge that has been transformational to how I view sex and why we must wait. I will give a lot of credit to my church family for walking me through these realisations and it has been joy... Continue Reading →